what i've been trying to figure out lately, this mostly applies to kris as opposed to ell and ess, is if we the people who are good friends in our small town - are we pushing each other away? remember when rach was talking about us saying nasty things about other people, not that, but ourselves. i don't know, i can't tell really, but sometimes i wonder. our teasing of each other and talking about each other, does it get out of hand sometimes? or we not accepting of each other enough? also, in a similar vein, should we be confronting each other more about stuff? in fact, and to sum all this drivel up, are we being girly and catty?
so if that makes any sense, your thoughts please. i'm trying to hurry cuz i've only got so much time. like i say i'm not sure, so kris, astound us with your intellect. :)